Monday, April 23, 2012

Four Wheels of Freedom

We would like to introduce you all to the newest member of the TL&M family - Ravvy. We finally bought a car. It has all 4 wheels, an engine and room for at least two people. We are so very proud.
Welcome Ravvy!
With our new found freedom we decided to get out and see Kinshasa these past few weeks. We met some friends for an afternoon of lawn games at a nature reserve at the edge of town. Matt was on the winning bocce ball team and Toni Lyn single-handedly beat Team England in the lawn bowling championship while a crowd of Congolese children cheered from across the pond (to be paid in pastries for their participation in the event when it ended).
The Champ

Matt took a turn haring the hash last weekend. This means he volunteered to do some reconnaissance work to find and lay out the running route. The route has to be laid out the morning of the run so it also means that the hares have to run a 7 - 10 kilometer route twice. "Luckily" there were three other people to help. They picked a place about 20 minutes outside of Kinshasa along the Congo River called Mbudi Nature. The run was called "A day at the beach - well . . . maybe . . ."  The first 2 kilometers consisted of boulder hopping along the banks of the swift and powerful Congo River. If you are thinking "That sounds a little dangerous" you would not be mistaken. But when the vote is 3 to 1 there is not much you can do. I guess that's the difference between people who have taken a wilderness first-aid course and people who haven't. It was wet, sandy, slippery and slow moving as 30 people of varying levels of fitness and coordination picked their way over the enormous boulders. In the end nobody got hurt and most people had a good time, but I don't think Matt is going to volunteer for hare duty for a long, long time.
The Hares

Paying the price in beer

You have No Idea how dirty this cup is.

But Down it goes!

The hat means he was voted "Hash Hero"

Instead Matt volunteered for something equally dangerous - substitute teaching Kindergarten for 2 weeks.  If you are looking for a test of will give it a try. Day One he was a deer in the headlights. At the end of Day Two his head was at the point of exploding. By the end of the week he was nearly broken but he survived.  Between Monday and Friday all of the 16 kids cried for some reason or another (most of the reasons are still unknown). One day it rained before lunch recess and the puddles on the playground were big enough to swim in. So, guess what the kids did. Yep, they swam in them. So the rest of the day all the kids walked around barefoot to let their shoes dry and had to change their clothes.  

To celebrate the end of a hard week of work for both of us we decided to throw our first house party since we arrived in Kinshasa. We first decided to invite 11 people for a game night because we had only 11 chairs, but got too excited so instead invited 19 people and 19 people showed up. We played UNO with the first arrivals, "Contact" and Boys vs. Girls Charades with the big group and Bohnanza with the night owls. Someone even threw up at the end of the night. Success!

Saturday we went to the market in Kinshasa, which we'll have to describe in further detail in another blog post cuz it's worth it. Sunday we got up early so Matt could run in the Kinshasa 20k. We drove to the Stadium of Martyrs (where Ali fought Foreman in the "Rumble in the Jungle") for the start of the race.

Let's get ready to rumble!
There were about 5000 people registered for the race and about 100 of them looked like they have done any kind of distance running before. People were doing warm up sprints and dancing around for about an hour before the race finally started. Matt saw guys preparing to run in loafers, socks, barefoot, converse All-Stars...you name it. One of the contestants was even running barefoot in his briefs (yes, his underwear).

Ready to run
The race was supposed to start at 8:00am. At about 8:45, when the sun was starting to turn last night's rain into steam, they finally took off.  And the crowd really took off. With $2500 on the line for the winner in a country where the average wage is a dollar a day, guess it's to be expected. But this wasn't your ordinary 1/2 marathon.


The Starting Line: It looks like a riot but it is really just a garbage fire we have to run past
Once the runners passed the "start line" there was no crowd or traffic control. As they ran through the streets and sandy sidewalks they were dodging buses, cars, carts, and crowds of people. Then they had to watch out for the sink-holes, broken glass, jagged steel in broken concrete while inhaling black smoke spewing from talepipes and trashfires. As the sun climbed and the runners hit the half-way point, people started to drop - at that pace in that heat it was only a matter of time. Matt saw four people passed out and carried away by paramedics (he even stopped to check the pulse on one that looked particularly bad).

The race for 631st place (Matt is the one with the backpack)
Finally, the contestants were directed to a sandy lot about a mile away from where they were told the race would finish (Meanwhile Toni Lyn was driving all over town looking for them and managed to get pulled over (for legally changing lanes) and had her driver's license temporarily confiscated before finally paying off the police). People were fighting over prizes, passing out in the sand, unable to walk, crying with pain and confusion because they had lost motor control of their legs and couldn't walk. It was amazing in a lot of ways, but not something to stick around for. Fortunately, Toni Lyn eventually got away from the police and found Matt.  Overall, it was the most physically challenging race that Matt has ever run and probably his most memorable.





A rare opportunity for a photo in public (pre-race)
Well, now we are ready to come back to the U.S. for a couple of weeks to recharge the batteries. We are looking forward to indulging in, well, everything.  

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Meet Baby Tony

Aime (our driver/friend) and his wife had a baby a few weeks ago. He is a healthy baby boy and they named him Tony. Aime named his son after Toni Lyn. How awesome is that? That is possibly one of the best compliments a person can give someone. A Morelli name crosses back over the Atlantic Ocean!



Otherwise, we are getting ready for our trip home in less than 2 weeks - Yay!  It has been hectic but we can't believe it is almost here.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Life Skills

For the last couple of weeks Matt was a substitute teacher at TASOK where he is also continuing to work on engineering projects on campus. He filled in for the Librarian/Life Skills teacher. If you asked, I don't really know exactly how to describe what "Life Skills" are but I have a few examples of some life skills we have picked up or improved on here in Kinshasa. 

Resourcefulness: A+
Let's say your boss is in town and you decide to have a work-related dinner party with some of your colleagues. You invite 4 people because you and your significant other have 6 plates, 6 bowls, 6 etc., because you live in a place where everything is very expensive and sooner or later you're going to have to pack it all into a suitcase or give it away. The table is set and the guests begin to arrive and one of them has decided to bring a guest with no notice. O.K. What do you do? Tell them you can't accommodate another? No. You grab a plastic patio chair and pull it up to the table. Then one of you slips out of the party while the other one distracts the group with The Grand Tour. You run over to your neighbor's and borrow an entire place setting (which luckily probably matches since you live in a place where there are only 2 choices for, well, everything) and try to slip back in without being too obvious.

Attention to detail: A- (with an A for effort)
There is a skill to buying a used car. Like most skills you can sharpen it over time. You learn to see the signs that a car has been converted from a right-hand drive to a left-hand drive (for whatever reason) by noticing that the blinker switch and the windshield wipers are reversed, the button on the floor-mounted automatic transmission gear shifter is on the passenger side (if you're lucky and it's not a stick) and the main window control is on the passenger side door. You also begin to notice debris (sticks, a pile of leaves, a sweater, shoes, towels, etc.) magically located under the cars to hide the drips of transmission fluid, power steering fluid, engine oil, etc. Your ability to spot a lemon has improved. Unfortunately, this does not feel like time well spent.

Creativity: 100%!
When a 5-year-old has a birthday party it goes without saying that there should be a pinata. This is especially true if the party is "space themed". So when there is no party store around selling pinatas what do you do? You build one. How the heck do you do that? You gather all the empty cardboard boxes, tape, party hats, and wire hangers you have and you make it happen, trying to walk the fine line between break-open-after-just-one-hit and quick-run-and-get-the-scissors-they're-going-into-the-3rd-round. The next day the birthday boy was asked by his parents what his favorite part of his birthday was. I'll let you guess what his response was.





Patience and Flexibility: B+
Nothing ever happens the easy way because here there isn't one.  Don't be mad when your power is shut off because your landlord didn't pay your utility bill (included in the 7 months up front rent he received) because he went on vacation. Don't get upset when the rental car company replaces the current defective car with an even more defective one, and then does it again, and then does it again, and then does it again. (Seriously, we are on our 4th car now - when you turn the car off the doors open automatically - among other things). It won't change by swearing at it. Or them, it turns out. They probably won't understand you anyway since you don't know how to swear in french, and they don't know how to listen in english.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Zongo Falls, Soccer Balls, and Wake-Up Calls

We finally left the Kinshasa city limits over President's Day weekend. It took us nearly 5 months, but we did it. Some friends we've made here invited us to come along with a huge group of Americans to Zongo Falls.

  

At one point we both slipped on the same rock and smashed our toes bloody just before having our picture taken in front of the falls. (Picture not shown.)

  

The next day we wandered into someone's cassava farm trying to find a hidden falls with a swimming hole.
  
We took this picture when we thought we had finally found it after wandering in the jungle getting sunburned for an hour. When we just about gave up a villager found us and showed us the way.

 
The actual waterfall. 
Tip: If they suggest you pay $2 for a guide, just do it. 



We went to the hash a couple of weeks ago. It was Toni Lyn's first hash. We ran through suburban Kinshasa. It actually seemed more dangerous than running through the bush. It is harder to keep your sense of direction and broken glass, jagged rusty metal objects, garbage bridges, and rancid pools are only some of the obstacles. It was a good day for a run though and everyone was glad to finally see Toni Lyn there.






Last weekend we played soccer with Aime and his family again. Toni Lyn got a lot of giggles and strange looks from dozens of men and boys who had clearly never seen a female play soccer before. Women are usually too busy carrying babies around, fetching water, doing laundry and cooking dinner (sometimes all at once).  She was pretty proud of how she played, despite being 5 years out of practice and the weight of 51% of the world on her shoulders.  The field was dirt, the goal posts were rocks, and most of the players were barefoot.  Good stuff.

We got our DRC driver's licenses this week. It is nice to have the freedom to go out at night. We were finally able to tell our friends yes when they asked us to come hang out with them that night. Usually, we would need 2 days notice to do anything at night so we could arrange it with our driver. So, last night (Saturday) we went to TASOK (the American school where Matt works) for drinks and games. We got home pretty late and were looking forward to sleeping in. At 8:00 AM a bomb went off. Seriously. After the second blast Matt said "That sounded like thunder, do you think it is?" He peaked out the window to see the crystal clear blue sky. "The sky is blue, its not thunder." Then he fell asleep again. A few minutes later, BOOM!!! "That one sounded like a cannon, it rattled the windows . . . weird." Then he fell asleep again. Meanwhile Toni Lyn, also half asleep, was thinking "Thunder? Canon? I think were being shelled" and then also fell back asleep. Doesn't say much about our survival instincts. A half hour later we finally got up and saw an email from the U.S. Embassy saying that one of the munitions depots across the river in Brazzaville caught fire and the ordinance started exploding.  As far as we can tell it was an accident. (No need to worry!) However, the 6 miles distance didn't prevent our friends' and colleagues' windows from shattering, doors being thrown off track, roofs caving in, etc. When Matt went for a run tonight he found that Kinshasa was pretty much back to normal, though he did see a DRC army tank on the running track down by the river where all the embassy buildings and higher-ups live. It looked like something out of WWII. The driver was definitely out of practice, he tore up one of the embassy lawns with the metal tracks doing a 180 degree turn.

View from Kinshasa of Brazzaville of the armory explosion

>240 dead, cause electrical short.

For more see:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-17336810
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-17271667

Friday, February 10, 2012

Back to Work

It has been a good week for Matt. Two weeks ago he went to the Hash and met some teachers from The American School Of Kinshasa (TASOK). One of them mentioned a maintenance management position that may be available at the school. Email addresses and phone numbers were exchanged and a few days later he was walking to a job interview. While getting ready he paid attention to what he was wearing, shaved, wore the right socks and all that stuff you do when you are a little nervous.  It turns out "TASOK doesn't need a maintenance manager. The position has already been filled. However, Matt, you are over-qualified for that position anyway. How would you like to be the consulting engineer on our renovation project?"
TASOK's prototype classroom building

Another angle

He ended up getting hired to manage the engineering and construction of a prototype classroom building. This prototype is going to be used as a template for the renovation of the rest of the 2 dozen or so buildings on campus.  It is not a huge project (~200 square meters) but it is going to incorporate natural ventilation, photovoltaics, rain water collection and storage, local materials and other good things.  He couldn't have found a better project to match his skill set and now he gets to put his brand new Professional Engineer's license to use (he found out he passed his test at the end of December). He also has the opportunity to survey the campus to find other opportunities that will help TASOK move toward their goal of a "GREEN" campus. If you would like to check out some more information about TASOK click here.

This week Matt also celebrated his 33rd birthday. On February 7th his endlessly wonderful partner woke him up with breakfast in bed then took him to lunch at a really good Indian restaurant downtown.  She surprised him by taking the afternoon off to hang out and go car shopping with him (hey were going to go see the "Snakes of the Congo" exhibit but couldn't find it). After looking at a lot of lemons they may have found something worth a bid.  Around 5 the two stopped in for a drink at "Maison du Vin" (House of Wine). Yep, did some wine tasting. In Kinshasa. The wine was terrible. Quelle surprise. The weather was cooling off, though, and for the first time in our 4 months in the DRC, we got complimentary (anything) appetizers. Finally, it was time to go to the reservation Toni Lyn said she made at an Italian place called Limoncello, where we had been trying to eat for months, including a failed attempt on New Year's Eve when they ended up being closed. Well, this time they were closed too. Ugh. Matt, who was pretty buzzed up at this point said "Let's just go home and order a pizza". He is a simple guy sometimes. Toni Lyn responded, We're not going home but since you suggested pizza, how about Extreme Pizzeria just down the street that we've been meaning to try? O.K.

When we got there two of our friends just happened to be walking into the restaurant at the same time. Matt invited them to join us for dinner.  We all sat down at a table for 4. A waiter came up to the table and asked if we would like to move to our reserved table. Matt said (confused) "No, we are fine here". Then Toni Lyn and Matt's neighbor showed up and it finally clicked (again, Matt is a simple guy sometimes). Toni Lyn had a sly smile on her face. Gradually, about a dozen people filtered into the restaurant and we had to move to the reserved table for Matt's Surprise Birthday Dinner!
B-day boy and party planner

They sang Happy Birthday in French.
After a great dinner (no pizza, Extreme Pizza doesn't serve pizza!?) complete with a homemade (fresh) lemon cake with our new friends, the night owls decided to go for a night capper.  TL and Matt got a ride with some friends so their driver (Aime) could go home. Before Aime left, he pulled out a piece of high quality drawing paper that had been folded in half.  Matt glanced at it and saw a likeness of himself (A's hat and sunglasses) and Toni Lyn sketched on the front page. Then he unfolded it and saw a fully illustrated hand-sketched comic book of himself and Toni Lyn in the Congo.  A week ago, Matt and Toni Lyn went to the Bonobo sanctuary and invited Aime to come along.  He accepted the offer, had a blast and must have taken it to heart because he hired an artist to make a comic book about about the trip. Gifts don't come much better than that. I guess it's the little things.
Front and back cover of the comic.

The story. How cool is that?


Playtime


Bonobo Beach - see Bonobos on the right bank

In other news, Toni Lyn finally went to her first Hash. We ran an 8K through the shanty town neighborhoods about a mile from our house. We stopped at the first chapel in Leopoldville (now Kinshasa), crossed streams of fluid resembling water but with additives on bridges made of car hoods, corrugated steel, loose wooden planks and various other battered heavy objects whose retirement still provides a service.
Built in 1891. I think that's a new roof. The back opens to the river.

Toni Lyn in the center talking with our friend Andy.

Friday, January 27, 2012

Herbal Remedies: Toni Lyn's First Trip to The Heart of Africa

Djolu (yellow 1) in relation to Kinshasa (green A)

I just returned from a 10-day trip to Djolu, a town in central DRC that was in many ways an appreciated break from the hustle and bustle of big dirty Kinshasa. To get there, I first took a small commercial plane to Mbandaka, a town on the Congo River and northeast of Kin.  The flight was not very exciting, small but like a plane you'd take from MI to Chicago.  Maybe the most interesting part was that the people I was going with, 3 men from a small American environmental-education-through-film NGO and 1 from the large international conservation NGO, had scheduled to pick me up at 4:45 AM for the flight.  It seemed like a bit overly cautious to arrive at the airport so early but since I was getting a ride I didn’t argue.  Since I had to wake so early and I had a lot of work to do the night before, and an extra excuse since the MSU v UM basketball game was on from 130-330 am (though in the end I couldn’t watch or listen to it, only track the written updates on ESPN.com), so I decided to pull an all-nighter.  Matt was kind enough to join me so we sat up working and reading, respectively (Matt is engrossed in The Poisonwood Bible – his SEVENTH book here, a good read to give some background on DRC. One of the others that he has read and recommends if you’re interested in DRC history/current events is King Leopold’s Ghost).  Anyway, at 4 am the car shows up.  Now, let’s review our physics – time is relative.  For example, if you have a weekend where you don’t have a lot going on and you sit down to watch a movie on Saturday night, the fact that the movie is 2 hours or 2 hours and 45 minutes probably won’t matter too much.  However, if it is 4:00 in the morning and you are rushing to finish some things and pack before you leave on a 10 day trip, 45 minutes is a BIG difference.  However, this would merely be the first (albeit, the earliest possible) time among many in my trip to remind me “T.I.A.” (this is Africa), and that definitely applies to schedules.  Although granted I have more experience with things being really delayed en Afrique than very early, but…TIA.

The plane that took us from Mbandaka east to Djolu was very small, a charter plane with just the 5 of us and two French pilots.  It was neat to be up in the air watching all the vast Congo forest stretching for miles and miles and miles (I almost wrote kilometers!).  

Then we each got loaded behind someone on a dirt bike and raced off 4 km to the Djolu research station where we are spending our time.  It was one of the best things I’ve done in DRC so far, which is good cuz I ended up spending many many hours on the back of a bike this trip. 

The objective of our trip to Djolu was to film villagers asking and talking about what they can do in the forest and how to divide the forest into different uses (“zones”) to accommodate best the different needs of the villagers as well as national and international interests (hunting, firewood, industrial logging, conservation, carbon sequestration, etc.).  The footage will be the major part of a film funded by us (the US Forest Service) and I am tagging along to help and also just to see some of DRC (it’s my first time outside of Kinshasa).
I was pleasantly surprised to be told there would be internet at the field station where we’d be staying and thus not too surprised that it turned out to be broken (although the group that runs the field station was).  The only other major logistical difficulty, if it can be called that, was that we only received meals (which was really the only way to eat) @730am (stale bread, bananas, and lemony hot water) and @3:45pm (pork, fish, chicken, fu fu (traditional dish, sort of like giant polenta balls but made from manioc/cassava), and pundu (traditional dish of manioc leaves, basically chopped sautéed greens)).  This was a strange schedule regardless but since we weren’t expecting it we ended up waiting for hours for lunch the first few days, and then again for the dinner that never came (albeit more hungrily for the former than the latter).
Our schedule had us visiting villages from 18 to 70 km away from Djolu, as well as meeting with people from Djolu itself.  We traveled by dirtbike, the other non-Congolese (American) on the trip driving himself and the rest of us, including some local assistants, riding on the backs of bikes.  Along the way we saw hundreds of people, mostly children, and I did my best to wave and yell “Mbote!” (Hi in the local Lingala) to everyone, often in response to their calls and waves. 

Once we arrived in the villages, we would sit at the front of a formal circle of seated people and introduce ourselves in French, usually translated by our AWF guide into Lingala, and then I would disappear into the background and the filming would begin.  Sometimes it was of a big meeting where people were cued/cajoled to ask/answer questions about zoning and use rights, sometimes one-on-one interviews of local chiefs or women, sometimes shots of action scenes like hunting or cutting trees.

Like most of the film shoots that I’ve experienced at field sites (the only place that I’ve had the experience, but I’ve had several), I found it pretty stressful.  For one, the work is demanding and stressful for the filmmakers as a few movements placed wrong or a few moments delay can make a big difference.  This is exaggerated when one does not share a common culture or language and thus split-second communication often devolves into shouting or even jerking and dragging people physically.  It’s pretty uncomfortable.  The other difficulty is the timing.  We sit for hours with little to do and then abruptly are rushed to the next place, only to sit again with nothing to do.  Of course, the cameraman and his assistant aren’t doing nothing, they’re running around, but I’m not that useful.  I spend most of the time doing background reading but occasionally interact with the local children, particularly by conspicuously and slowly flipping through the colored pictures in the Lonely Planet, asking the kids how to pronounce the names of leopards and pangolin in Lingala.  There is little more that we are able to communicate.  I am as curious of them as they are of me but it is nearly impossible to bridge the gap.  When we do finally seem to make contact, it inevitably ends with being asked for money.  

This was setting out to be the pattern of things but I was unfortunate enough to have a run-in with a, well, I don’t know what it was.  Presumably an insect, though I was wearing long sleeves and long pants.  Let’s just say that when people offer you a chair everywhere you go, you shouldn’t act overly tough because you want to change their mind about you being a weak soft white person, you should accept that you are a weak soft white person and take the seat.  After 2 days of sitting on the ground (if that was indeed the cause), I got bit through/under the shirt by an insect(?) that I never saw and only noticed when my arm started itching like nothing in my life has ever itched before.  For about 20 minutes I turned into a raging lunatic, walking and then pacing through the village while everyone else continued with the film work, tearing at my arm and wondering how I could rip it off.  After a bit I recalled my wilderness first aid training, and the first aid kit I was dragging around everywhere, and pulled it out, tossing its contents haphazardly as I hadn’t the mental capacity to do anything in a disciplined way.  I searched desperately for a remedy (You’re F*&*in KIDDING me, I didn’t bring any Benadryl?!!) and finally gave up, consuming something that was for all intents and purposes probably a placebo (hayfever medication?), but hey, science tells us placebos work, right?  I resumed pacing, interrupting it only to (impatiently) take a picture of three Congolese guys whose request I couldn’t deny.  I eventually made my way to David to complain of my desperation and the Congolese cameraman suggested an herbal remedy (well, he suggested suggesting it for several minutes until I YELLED at him in English to just TELL me what it was, which wasn’t at all helpful since no one speaks English here but I had lost almost complete control of myself) and when we finally communicated clearly, I interrupted him with, “Okay, you want me to pee on my arms?  Fine, sounds good.” And I ran off to the woods to do just that, with the American filmmaker yelling after me that I would have to be quite a contortionist to manage such a thing.  And yes, I did pee on my arms (both were on fire at this point, with my belly and upper chest just beginning), and maybe it did help a little, but honestly it was hard to tell, so I crouched there with my underwear around my ankles and my own urine dripping from my arms until a village woman came to get me to tell me that everyone was leaving.  Well, she didn’t speak any language that I knew more than 4 words of but that’s what I figured out.  She also “told” me that I should be careful of the corn stalks because they sure are prickly, poor soft fragile white girl must have gotten scratched by the corn stalks and now her arms hurt.  I explained that I had been wearing my over shirt (which I blame for all of this and had removed and will never wear again) and that it was insects.  She seemed very sympathetic that the insects that they live with every day must have been very hard on me.  Anyway, I spent the next 4 days in misery over the rash that had spread across half my body and is just now finally going away.
That was not the only insect encounter of course, though certainly the worst. For example, everything gets covered in tiny ants.  The package of cookies that my colleague brought with him from “civilization” is inedible (well, not according to the ants swarming all over it for days now), our “lunch” left out from the night before (maybe it was actually supposed to become dinner, gives a new meaning to leftovers), even my bed when I wake in the morning (and more and more when I get in it at night, though I do my best to brush them away).  My nights were extremely uncomfortable because of my rash and I went to bed most nights before 8:00, though I would sit up and read for hours, unable to sleep with the itching and the noise (it is always noisy here, there are about 10 roosters and they crow every 10 seconds from 530 am to 530 pm, plus random music parties every other night, the sound of the generator which actually only provides power 3 hours/day, even a scratchy crappy signal from a radio that my wallmate plays every night til after 10 and every morning starting around 5).  I also was reading a very good book (Book 12 of Wheel of Time (again), 1050 pages which I easily finished during this trip).  Anyway, although the ants are not ideal, they assiduously cart away all of the insects that attack me unsuccessfully (due to a very useful mosquito net) or successfully (if they are too small to be bothered by the mosquito net) throughout the night.  In other words, as disturbing as waking to a few dozen ants in your bed, it is perhaps preferable to waking to a graveyard of insects that tried to attack you throughout the night.
There are good moments too.  We take the dirt bikes 70km to a village where we filmed a 60 going on 90-year-old chief (who later gives me a present of raw coffee beans wrapped in a giant leaf and I give him a cheap rubber animal-shaped bracelet off of my wrist) with a leopard skin hat (for real) singing and dancing and chanting with his clan this amazing song in a way that I can’t describe except to say it was one of the best experiences of my life (and is still stuck in my head);

we roll the bikes and tight-rope across log bridges through villages where I wave and wave and the air rushes my arms (blessed relief) and the driver and I share my headphones and jam out to Michael Jackson’s Thriller (Africans LOVE MJ);

the Women’s Association gives me a present of eggs and I am later told that a present of eggs means that you have been accepted; surrounded by villagers in a far away village, I put a baseball cap on drawing stares and laughs from everyone around and I end up in a full belly laugh when my colleague suggests that it’s not a girl wearing a cap that is making them react, it’s just that they’re not fans of the Detroit Tigers; gather pebbles with the guardians and play a makeshift game of Mancala in the dirt with the Congolese workers; I have my first HOT water field shower (bucket bath); I work with the Pygmy cook to learn how to make fufu (local cassava dish, kind of like polenta); I am greeted warmly nearly everywhere we go.  I have had the chance to think about my situation, my work, my goals, my life. 

But in the end, I am very, VERY happy to be “home” (back with Matt), and I am going to take a long long bath and eat some pizza! (...after I get over this terrible bout of food poisoning - don't eat the airline food on Congo Air!)